Friday, 24 January 2025

The Gospel of John: The Woman At The Well 4:1 – 42

In the last lesson we were Nicodemus. Today we are with a very different individual: the woman at the well, or the Samaritan woman. Nicodemus is a man, she is a woman. Nicodemus is Jewish, she is Samaritan, Nicodemus is well known; we don’t even this lady’s name. Nicodemus was a well-educated teacher; this lady probably never went to school. Nicodemus was from the city; she was from a village.

 By placing these two characters near each other our artist is underlining something beautiful. Jesus talks to Nicodemus; Jesus talks to this woman. Jesus talks everybody, regardless of their race, or gender or their place in society.

 Right at the start of this Gospel, in 1:19, we know that John the Baptist is a problem for the powers that be in Jerusalem. They don’t like him telling Jews to repent and be baptised. And when they hear that now Jesus is baptizing more people than John, that means Jesus is now their number one enemy. Learning this – Jesus decides to move north, to Galilee where it will be safer, and he chooses to use the most direct route which means going through Samaria even though things were not good between the Jews and the Samaritans. The Jews hated the Samaritans for being half Jewish and half Assyrian, and they hated them for having their own form of Judaism. They had built their own temple on Mt Gezarim. The southern Jews had destroyed this in about 110 BC, but, as we see in this story, the Samaritans still thought this was the place to worship God. And then the Samaritans didn’t accept all the Old Testament, just the first five books of Moses. The tension between Jews and Samaritans was intense and often there was violence. For a Jew like Jesus, Samaria is unclean and unsafe. But Jesus wants to get away from Jerusalem.

 Again we have irony. The place that should be safe for Jesus – Jerusalem – is not safe, and we will find out that the place that shouldn’t be safe – Samaria – is safe.

 The journey begins and we are told that Jesus gets tired and so has a rest by Jacob’s well which is on some land that Jacob gave to his son, Joseph. The disciples go to get some food.

 It has been said that the Gospel of John is full of secret doors. You are in a room and you think there is a just a book-case there, but then you push a little, and you find there is a door in the book case and you can enter another room.

 That is certainly the case here for Jesus is not sitting in an ordinary place. He is around Sychar which in Hebrew means wage, but because workers were sometimes paid in wine, it can also mean drunk. A place called ‘drunk’, perhaps not a good place for Jesus to be.

 And He is sitting on land given by Jacob to Joseph, his favourite son. You can read about this in Genesis 48:21 -22. Now we have Jesus, also a favourite son, who has been given land by his father. And there is a well.

 Joseph and a well. It’s impossible not to think of what happened to Joseph. He was sent to his bothers, and they put him down a well. And here we have another favourite son who has been sent by his father – to his own land – and already his brother Jews have problems with him. That’s why he is in Samaria. The well sits there, a reminder of the suffering that will come to Jesus. That’s the first room, the first level.

 But there is a second room, a second level. For a well is a place for drawing water which brings life. So – Jesus – sent by his father is sitting by a place which will bring suffering and life. Indeed in Acts 2 there is so much life that people think that the disciples are drunk. They have been in Sychar. There is merriment.

 Just to make sure we know there is more to this picture than a tired man sitting by a well, the writer then tells us the time. We don’t need really need to know the exact time, but he tells us. It is the sixth hour. Noon. The hour when Pilate sent Jesus to the cross. That’s in 19:14.

 So, we have gone through the secret doors at the start of this story and seen that again the writer wants us to see that the water of life flows from the suffering of Jesus Christ.

 There is another secret door in this story, but first we have a shock.

 A Samaritan lady arrives by the well to draw water. Jesus is a Jewish man, she is a Samaritan woman. In the Misnah, a book full of Jewish rules, it is said that Samaritan women are always unclean.

 We expect silence. There should be no conversation. But there is – Jesus asks for a drink. With Nicodemus, Jesus should have talked first, but he doesn’t. Now with this lady, he shouldn’t talk – but he does. And he certainly shouldn’t want to drink from the same cup as this Samaritan. Jesus refuses to be locked into a box of cultural rules.

 And there is more.

 If you are a woman watching this, what would you think if a strange man asked you for a drink? You would think – he wants to talk to me, he wants to start a relationship. That is exactly what Jesus wants to do.

 You have probably heard that she is coming at noon to get her water instead of in the evening, the normal time, because she is not too popular in her village. So making Jesus’ willingness to reach out to her more loving.

 The woman is shocked and says so, and then Jesus says something that is very odd. He says there is a gift from God that I can give you – it’s living water.

 I like this woman. She is feisty and she reckons she knows how to deal with mystics like this Jew. She mocks him. ‘You are talking about giving me living water and you haven’t even got a bucket to draw the water with’. Typical man. Fantastic ideas. Wonderful words. Practically useless. And who do you think you are? This is Jacob’s well. This water was good enough for Jacob, his sons, his animals? And you have the nerve to say it’s not good enough? She has a go at Jesus.

 Nicodemus was respectful and polite and ends up getting rebuked by Jesus because he failed to move from the physical to the spiritual. This woman isn’t respectful and polite, and she too fails to move from the physical to the spiritual – but Jesus does not rebuke her. He really does deal with us as individuals.

 He is very patient and explains that with ordinary water, you quickly become thirsty again. But if she drank the water He wanted to give her – she would never get thirsty again. In fact this water would keep on welling up, it would never end, and it would give her eternal life.

 We have to pause here and admire our author. He moved the story of the temple cleansing to the start of the story to emphasize the centrality of Christ’s cross. Jesus is the true temple. This has everything to do with water. When we have God’s presence, we have a river – you can find this in Psalm 46, and in Revelation 22. But especially in Ezekiel 47 – the vision of God’s temple, and what is flowing out of the temple – a river that gives life. First the temple, that’s John 2, and then the water, the Spirit – that in John 3 and now it’s here in John 4.

 So, Jesus the temple is offering the woman the water of life. I love her reaction. Let’s have it. Give it to me. Yes. There is no hesitation – as obviously there was with Nicodemus.

 Again Jesus does not behave in a way that you would expect. Give me the water she says, and what should be next? Here you are. But that’s not what Jesus says. He completely changes the subject, ‘Go and call your husband – and then come here.’ Jesus isn’t saying He won’t give the water; but he wants to talk about her personal life.

 She says she has no husband. She must have thought, well that’s the end of the conversation. He’s asked to see my husband. I haven’t got a husband. So – let’s have this water.

 But it’s not as simple as that, because Jesus knows us. He knows it’s true that she has no husband – and he knows it’s not true. And he tells her. You’ve had five husbands and your present boyfriend isn’t your husband. That must have been hard for the woman.

 Remember we said that Nicodemus’ conversation must have made him uncomfortable – you’re a ruler and you don’t know the basics. Well, it’s the same for this woman for different reasons. Nicodemus needed humbling; this woman needed to own up to her past. Jesus wants them both to enjoy the living water.

 What do we do when a conversation becomes difficult? We change the subject. That’s what this lady does. After acknowledging that Jesus is a prophet, which is more than Nicodemus did, she changes the subject to the major difference between the Samaritans and the Jews. The Samaritans say that God should be worshipped ‘on this mountain’, because this was where Abraham built the first altar. So, we Samaritans, we are nearer the origins of the faith. But you Jews, you say the place to worship is Jerusalem, which was founded long after Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. She has certainly changed the subject, but she is also questioning why she should believe Jesus if he – as a Jew – has got such an important question wrong.

 Jesus could have said – you’re just changing the subject because you don’t want to talk about those five husbands and your boyfriend. But he is kind. He does respond to her question with an argument for Jerusalem. The basis of the argument depends on the assumption that geography is important for the worship of God. Jesus destroys that assumption. He declares that when it comes to worshipping God, geography does not matter. What matters is worshipping the Father – in spirit and truth. Lady, it’s not just a matter of turning up somewhere and saying a few prayers. The Father is looking at our hearts. He wants to see that we are worshipping with all our being – and in truth. We are truthful about who we are, we are ready to confess wrong-doing in our past. In his answer Jesus is again asking the woman to own up to her past sins so she too can worship – in spirit and truth,

 The woman has said that the Jews have got it wrong, and so is implying that what they say about spiritual things cannot be trusted. Jesus refuses to accept this. He is ready to say that geography is not important; he is not ready to say the writings of the Jewish people, all the Old Testament, are not important. The Jewish people are important and so he says, ‘Salvation is from the Jews’. Jesus is saying to her that if she accepts the water this does not mean she will have to come to Jerusalem. But she must accept the whole Bible, the records of the Jews. As a Samaritan, she only accepted the first five books of Moses. Jesus is saying that’s not enough. This principle remains today. When it comes to salvation, geography doesn’t matter, the Bible does. We must accept the whole Bible and the truth that Jesus is a Jew, so salvation is from the Jews.

 One thing that the Samaritans and the Jews agree on is that the Messiah is coming. The Samaritans called him the Taheb, the ‘Restorer’. Unable to answer Jesus, the woman says, well, when the Messiah comes he will give us the definitive answer.

 Then Jesus says, to this Samaritan woman with no name - ‘I am the Messiah’, so I know what I say is true.

 So far, this chapter has been all about Jesus and the woman, now the disciples come on the scene and they are shocked.

 The woman probably sensed they were not happy and that it was time to leave. But she has also sensed Jesus’ love. She has become a believer. This is the Messiah. This is the man who can give me living water. And so we read a beautiful thing in v. 28

 ‘So the woman left her water jar’.

 آShe never filled it up with the old water, the water that which she would drink and get thirsty again. No – she was ready for the living water. And she was ready to testify. She runs back to her village and says what Jesus said to Andrew and his friend, what Philip said to Nathaniel – ‘Come and see’

 She has not become a believer because of the argument about where people should worship. No, she has become a believer because Jesus showed that he knew all about her life. This is mentioned twice – v. 29, and v. 39. Jesus knows about what has happened in our individual lives and He does not condemn us. He invites us to believe and drink His water. That is love. She believes because she is loved.

 Because of her testimony, the other Samaritans get up and they want to see Jesus.

 Meanwhile we have another difficult conversation in 31 – 38, between Jesus and his disciples. The disciples want to eat. They have laid out the picnic cloth, all the food they have bought is sitting there, now they want to start. But of course –– they had to wait till Jesus joined them. But he doesn’t, even though they are urging him to, and even though we know he was tired, so he needed physical food.

 Jesus says he has other food, and so we have another misunderstanding with Jesus’ listeners thinking about something physical – a birth, water, food – and Jesus’ meaning is spiritual. So they say, ‘Has someone given him separate food? Maybe that woman, maybe she has given him some food.’ Jesus now tells them about the food he has eaten. It is the food of doing what the father wants, and what does the father want – it is reap the harvest to bring people to faith. And we don’t have to think we have to wait for the harvest. It is happening now.

 And the harvest has happened because others have sown. He is probably thinking of all the work of the prophets in the Old Testament. Now we have to respect their work and get busy bringing in the harvest so at the end the people who have sown and the people who reap can rejoice together.

 Jesus’ food is God’s work, and God’s work is reaching other people. That must have priority over our physical food. That is what is uncomfortable for these disciples – and for many Christians down the ages. Jesus often asks us to forego food for the harvest.

 In v. 34 Jesus wants the disciples to see that the harvest is already happening. They don’t have to wait four months. He asks them to look up – and what would they see? They would see the Samaritan woman leading all the village out to them. It would have been a big crowd.

 They all come to Jesus and his disciples and the Samaritans believe – because of the woman’s testimony. Then they invite Jesus and his disciples to stay with them, and they do – for two days. And so more people believe, not just now because of the woman, she started things, but because of their own experience with Jesus. So they conclude that Jesus is the Saviour of the world. This expression is only found here, and in the first letter of John 4:14. It is a lovely expression, underlining all that has happened in this story, Jesus is not just the Saviour of the Jews, he is everyone’s Saviour, even the Samaritans.

 There is so much irony here.

 As said, Jesus is not safe with his own people, but he finds safety and welcome with the enemies of his people. And his own people, the Jews, don’t forget this. They obviously get to hear that Jesus has gone and spent time in Samaria, a place where most of them would not go near for fear of becoming ‘unclean’ or drunk – remember the meaning of Sychar. And so when they are later attacking Jesus they bring this up as an accusation, it’s there just before they try to stone him in 8:38 – ‘Are we not right in saying that you are a Samaritan?’ If Jesus had spent time with the Samaritans, surely, he must really be a Samaritan. He’s not a real Jew. Jesus paid a price for spending time with these Samaritans.

 And then there is so much irony about the lady and Nicodemus. Who should recognise the Messiah swiftly? Why, the educated man who is a teacher of Israel. But Nicodemus is very slow. He only shows he is with Jesus right at the end of the story. Who should understand very slowly? Why, this uneducated woman from a village in Samaria. But it is she who understands very quickly. Who should be the best witness for Jesus? Why an educated man. But Nicodemus never witnesses for Jesus. Who should be a bad witness for Jesus? This uneducated woman. But she is in fact not just a much better witness than Nicodemus. She is the best witness in all of the Gospels. There is no other individual who brings virtually an entire village to faith in Christ. She is the one who does this. What a lady.

 I said there was another secret door in this story, another seemingly simple picture that then has another meaning. I want to end with it.

 Watch the scene of Jesus sitting by a well talking to a woman. That opens a door to the Old Testament where we have three stories of a foreign man visiting another country and then something happens around a well. The first story – and perhaps the most famous – is the story of Abraham’s servant in Genesis 24 going to the city of Nahor to find a wife for Isaac. Rebecca comes out to get water from the well and the servant prays saying that if she offers to give water to his camels then he will know that she is the one. That is what happens. Then in Genesis 29 we have the first meeting of Jacob and his cousin Rachel whom he fell in love with. Again the whole story happens by a well. And finally we have the story of Moses. He flees Egypt, arrives in Midian and sits down – where? By a well. You can check this in Exodus 2:15. While he is sitting there the daughters of Jethro come to get water but they are attacked by some shepherds. Moses jumps up and drives these unpleasant men away and the girls go home with their water. After that Moses is invited to Jethro’s home – and he marries one of those daughters, Zipporah. Three wives of three famous men from the Old Testament, all wives because of a well.

 And just like the servant, Jacob, and Moses, Jesus is a man coming into a foreign country. And he too finds a well. And a woman comes. And after their conversation he goes to stay in the woman’s village for two days, where everyone is happy. It feels like a celebration, almost like a wedding.

 This is quite a door. This is quite another level of meaning. Who is the woman of Samaria? She is Christ’s bride. Yes, the woman who has had five husbands and when she met Christ was living with a boyfriend, this woman becomes Christ’s bride. Isn’t that beautiful?  Doesn’t that give us all hope?

 What spiritual food can we take from this extraordinary story?

 Jesus wants to give us living water, twenty-four hours a day. This water flows from the temple of his broken body. Be like the woman, leave your water jar, and say to Jesus every day – give me this water. He became thirsty for you on the cross; you need never become thirsty.

 And what lessons. From Jesus – never write people off, always be open to start a conversation with people like this woman of Samaria, however unpopular that might make you with your family and friends. And encourage those people to talk about the painful things that have happened in their lives.

From the woman – be ready to want the water, and be ready to testify, however difficult it might be.

 From the disciples – don’t be too worried about food. Look up from your food and you will see there are plenty of people to talk to.

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